October 27, 2013
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Not The “Dear John” Letter
I perused through some of the xanga info from Xanga and saw that a guy named John is at the Xanga office in NYC. I’d love to see what’s behind that Xanga door and I wonder why he hasn’t posted since, like, last year. My doubts are inflamed. I hope “they” are really and truly working on things and not just flipping us off.
Life has become a little brighter lately. Our little house is getting new windows. Hubby and I won’t freeze in our little bedroom this Winter. Thank you, Jesus! That portion of the house was an add-on years ago and when hubby tore off the exterior in that corner, he discovered very poor-shoddy workmanship. So, he corrected that along with installing the doublepaned window. Two windows, in fact. A friend is coming this week to help install 4 more windows. Then, we’re finished with that project. Hallelujah!
A week ago, we got out for a little while and took a photostroll through one of our local parks. There is a creek that runs through there, although it’s been dry many times. I was thrilled to see water in it because water makes for prettier pictures. So do golden trees! After our jaunt, we returned home and I put together a fabulous dinner for us three, plus dad and sis. They LOVED coming over for a yummy, homecooked meal and we enjoyed each other’s company. I wish I could do that for them several times a week! Soon, we’ll be celebrating dad’s 83rd birthday. One thing that has happened since mom went to her heavenly home, is that dad and I have a sweet relationship. I am amazed that the frustration and anxiety and sometimes anger I felt toward him “before”, is completely gone. I love him dearly and he is a sweet old daddy and cuter than cute.
This picture is one I took on the day he and mom would’ve celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary. He was pretty brave. He looked up to the sky and said “She’s up there” and kind of giggled (maybe to keep from breaking down crying) and then we were on our way.
So, I’m staying on here for awhile to write and post pictures and read what you, my handful of friends are up to. I have hopes that John (?) and the other mystery people at Xanga will truly come through for us and prove me wrong.
Comments (9)
I’m SO glad that life is looking a little better for you now — there’s nothing like a cozy bedroom with double-paned windows to warm the heart — and the rest of you too! That’s a great shot of your dad — he’s looking pretty good at 83!
Now that I’m 75, 83 doesn’t sound so old. A letter from the Xanga “bosses” would be nice, so we could know a little bit about what’s going on, if anything. Glad for the new windows, but I’m sure I’m not half as glad as you are!
Yes, nice to see things looking better.
I love birthdays now–I did not as a kid. lol Your dad is a little older than me. Nice to see how that relationship is going.
Xanga. lol I sure hope we are not flipped off as you put it. I keep hoping.
Blessings
frank
it’s funny how death can change everything.
My mom and I got along better after dad died. I guess I found out that they won’t be there forever like I thought they would be.
I started to appreciate my mom.
Nice to read your encouraging post! Have a wonderful day.
Hi Doris! I hope you and your hubby and the whole family are doing well!
Oh! I am able to see your site! Your’s is the only one I am able to get to and I have no idea why? :/ I can’t even figure out my own xanga site…but I moved over to blogspot, so it doesn’t matter I suppose.
Anyway, about your post….
I bet your dad misses her like crazy. Glad you were able to celebrate with him both birthday and anniversary. I’m sure it wasn’t easy for any of you.
Happy new week to you.
That IS weird that you can only see my sight! xanga’s pretty much a mess, so, anyway, I’m glad I know where to find you AND I do read whatever you post! (and LOVE whatever you post). Yes, dad misses mom. He’s pretty strong, but he did seem a tad “wobbly” today, and when he is, I am. I feel so bad for him. We continue to move forward and try to make life fun and interesting; we ALL need THAT!!! Love ya!
How are you doing?
frank