November 8, 2010
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Time Out
Today seems to have been a day to do something different, out of the norm. Like, Hubby and I needed a "Time Out". But together. So, after a little breakfast with friends, we went to run an errand and upon realizing that we were so close to one of the lakes in our area, Hubby said let's go. Besides, we haven't been there for a long time as it's on the other end of town. Or out of the other end of town. It was chilly but beautiful. There are fabulous walking paths now and because we have this Fall weather, the color is nice. I did snap alot of photos but am only posting these two for now. "Time Out" on that one. As soon as we got home, someone came to my door to present me with a difficult situation. It's one which requires me to take a FacebookTime Out. I had said too much and wasn't very nice about it. I apologized and removed the offensive "status" that I had posted a month ago while going through a very frustrating situation with them. And they are not people who are easy to confront or talk to. So, right now I am on my little comfy loveseat, knowing that at least the Lord knows my heart, knows I have done what I could to repair the damage and that I am open to forgiveness; me toward them and hopefully, them toward me. Human nature does get in the way when the Spirit isn't completely in control!and when my fingers went flyin over the keyboard that day, the Spirit wasn't in them. Oh yea, it could've been worse, and we have dealt with alot more being the recipients of the effects of their ways. But I should've taken my frustration straight to the One who has the best listening ear, the biggest heart, the most love and the clearest understanding. God.
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What a wonderful time out at the lake, Gail -- you look very relaxed on the shore, and it looks like a nice day! I love the leaves on the surface of the lake -- very beautiful shot! I know the frustrations of saying too much -- was in a meeting on Friday when I said perhaps more than I should have; although the President of the group was in full support of what I said, I still feel bad about how I said it! Have a wonderful relaxing day, and enjoy those rejuvenating times out
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@slmret - Thank you, my Dearie! I'm glad you understand! As a friend said to me earlier today, "We all do it". I know I'm far from perfect. I just don't like to mess up, and I especially don't like to hurt people. ( ;
@Richgem - Exactly . And somehow it is exactly when we want most not to hurt people that something we say hits a nerve we might not have even known about. Forgiveness sometimes takes a little time and patience -- if they're good friends, they'll be back...
(((((hugs)))))
@slmret - You're absolutely RIGHT ON!
What a wonderful way to spend a Time Out. The husband & I spend a lot of time at the lake in the summer. We have a boat and honestly I have found nothing anymore peaceful than the calm of the lake on an early morning. Glad you got some much needed relaxation time.
As far as the facebook ordeal, it happens to the best of us. Sometimes we let our anger and frustrations get the best of us. Pray about it, God knows what is in your heart. It was a mistake, we all make them.
Hope you have a fantastic rest of the week
Oh, today I saw the little canoes out there and thought how nice it would be to have one; I think I'd be out there nearly every day if I could be! And, you're right about the fact that we all make mistakes. So far, I haven't run into anyone who is absolutely perfect!
Nice pictures, you look very relaxed and the leaves on the water makes a stunning picture. I have had the same thing happen to me where someone felt insulted........Although I know there are times someone is really "hurt" there are also these same people who look for "hurts" and are just difficult to get along with. I want to say,"get over it" if someone takes me wrong and knows I would not intentionally hurt them. Difficult sometimes to get along with others. We've all had times like that.
@Lucy_or_Ethel - About 6 years ago a 12 year old not-so-good friend of my daughter told me "I hate people". I was shocked that she'd say that, but later understood where she was coming from. It can be complicated dealing with people who are difficult and don't want to see that they have huge problems. I just hope that my particular "person" will see that my apology was/is sincere and we can put this behind us.
You do look relaxed. I absolutely love the picture with the leaves on the water. He knows your heart, hopefully they will soon.
I love oldfatgramma's words. He DOES know our hearts AND our weaknesses AND how we try to do what is right. I think I know how you are feeling as I just hate when I say too much....I often pray before I go somewhere, "Lord please help me think before I speak. There is a verse I try to keep in mind: "When words are many, sin is not absent but he who holds his tongue is wise." I am so thankful for gracious and forgiving friends and I hope that you will find this in the person who came to your door. ~Blessings
WoW! they came to your door after after a facebook posting? Praying the Lord will mend.
Love the sound of your walk by the lake. What a peaceful time enjoying God's creation.
Love ya Gail girl!
@oldfatgramma - @threejoys - He DOES know my heart, for which I am so grateful because only HE can really take care of me! And Cordy, that verse is one I need to memorize after all the times I've read it!!! ( 8
@betheelou - Yep. I happily invited this person to come in, thinking it was a friendly visit! The person said, "No, I'd rather not". As if my house was a bad place. I knew then that something was wrong, but never dreamed it would be THAT!!!
Oh, dear heart. People really do blow things up, and what is the profit? I am glad you have taken it to the Lord. Repentance and rest
hope all is mended soon.
Love the lake pictures and sweet you!
@ABAHM - Aww, YOU are a dear heart! I did take it to the Lord and asked Him to let me hear His voice, an answer to WHY this all happened. He, blessed dear Lord, let me see through my clouds. It's all about the desire He put in my heart and how I miss handled a situation. It's all so very clear now, and I have complete peace. And it feels SOOO good!
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