January 8, 2012
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Please sTanD There one MoRe time….
so I can tell you in person how much you meant to me.
You are gone now, my dear neighbor. I hope, truly hope that you are in Heaven. So does your family. You used to stand in your lower yard, watering the rose bushes and you loved it whenever we came outside. Every now and then, you’d find my boy’s soccer ball and toss it over, You didn’t seem to mind that once in awhile, a ball would be there. Maybe because your own boy was a ball-playing kid once. He’s a grown man, shaken to the core after seeing your last breathe whisper through you mouth.
I always loved how hard you worked in your yard. When you invited us to come pick apples from your huge, healthy apple tree, I was so grateful for your kindness. Now, the ravens have picked it clean. And as a reminder, it seems, they have dropped a few as they flew over our yard, on the way to a new perch.
The tomato plants you gave us in June are brown, frozen…waiting to be plucked out and put into the compost bin. Those were the best tomatoes we’d ever eaten and they delighted my grandwonders when they went through our garden looking for goodies. Thank you SO much for that gift.
You were so cute in your suspender-held jeans with your measuring tape always on your belt, standing by our fence, chatting with my hubby about “stuff”; the yard work, the hunting trip, the future projects,,,”It’s never done!”
Your blue eyes could be seen from our front step almost all the way over to yours. Your smile was just as bright. Your voice when you called Bandit “Hey, Dohg” will stay with me forever.
I will miss seeing you drive by, especially with your wife . I will miss you watering and just kind of poking around in your yard. I wish that the last time you were at our front door, we’d invited you in to sit a spell. If only we’d known your time here on earth was almost……….. gone.

Comments (19)
Praying for the family and for you, too, as you grieve.
I am so sorry for your loss. (((warm hugs)))
you are in my thoughts and prayers
I’m so sorry, Gail — he sounds like a delightful neighbor!
Sorry for your loss. What sweet words you wrote.
I’m sure your neighbor would appreciate this post.
It is hard to lose someone special. =(
Sorry about your neighbor. What a wonderful tribute this post is to him. Prayers and hugs coming your way, my friend.
@oldfatgramma - @Elizabethmarie_1 - @slmret - @andreas_d - @SealedbyGrace - Thank you, all of you for the thoughts and prayers. It’s been such a sad day. Friday will be even harder when we go to the service. Please pray for the wife and grown kids and little grands. Also that hubby and I will know how and when to help.
so sorry! We never do know when ours or others last breath will come. A good reminder for me to live every day like it’s the last. May God give you grace and strength!
I am sorry for the loss of your friend.
what amazing Memories you have of this man!.May his Legacy live forever!
What a beautiful treasure you have lost, he lived his life well, if you could see the sparkle in his eyes from across the yard.
Something tells me, he is tending the roses in Heaven.
@WildWomanOfTheWest - No doubt, he is!
we have been blessed to have the same neighbors on either side of the fence for 20 years…they have become so near and dear to our hearts. i know that if something were to happen to them it would be devestating for us. i am thinking of you dear…i know how hard it is to have such fond memories and wish for that ‘one last time’….so many things you would have said or listened or smiled about. praying for you guys as you both deal with this loss but strive to come along side the family as they grieve as well. you are loved my dear and held tightly in HIs arms (and i wish i was closer so i could come over and just ‘be’ with you.)
So sorry for the loss of your neighbor.
(((HUGS))).
You had something really special and hope you keep those fond memories tucked away always!!!
Beautiful.
We never know do we….hugs my sweet
Saw you on Mae’s site had to rop by
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Ooops *drop lol.
HuGs
Just now seeing this post. Sorry for the loss, your tribute to him is very sweet,